How often do we observe the bad things that occur in our life but miss the good?
We see the empty glass of milk that our child has been left on the table. Then we fail to see the fact that all the milk was ingested and will be working to improve their health.
We see the tiny flaws in a project that was constructed with love by our child but do not recognize the effort that was put into the end result.
Why do these things happen? How can it be that we continually hurt the ones we love the most?
A few will allege that it is because we are trying to help them. We are just attempting to protect them from the world that they will run into down the road.
For me, I would much rather experience the loving touch, listen to the heartfelt laughter or view the adoring glance than the ‘constructive criticism’.
It may be suggested that without this hard training we would certainly fail when we enter the cold cruel world.
But, isn’t it better to know that you have a secure place to retreat to when the going gets rough than to be hesitant to ask your loved ones for help?
Here are a few suggestions that will help you create a safe environment for your loved ones: 1. Practice a delighted tone of voice when receiving a telephone call from your other half, as opposed to an exasperated tone or a rushed pace that implied the partner’s call has disrupted important tasks (and inferring that they are less important) 2. Inquire about the dentist appointments or other details of the other person’s day 3. Put down the remote control, newspaper, or telephone when the other partner walks thru the door 4. Coming home at the anticipated time – or at least calling if there is a delay
What these things will do is help you show the other person that they are essential to you. That they do matter.
All this boils down to is the fact that we need to honor our loved ones doing something good each and every day. There are forever individuals out there waiting to tell them when and how they messed up.
If we follow Mohandas Gandhi’s statement, ‘Be the change that you want to see in the world’, our world will get a little bit better each day.
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